I said OK, take care of yourself and go and see your therapist please. I hope he will.
IMHO you have told him this. He has heard you. Do not dwell on this anymore. It is controlling and he is probably not going to listen. If you need to communicate this to him again do it in a non verbal way. If you continue to try to tell him you only push him away.
I believe the OW will eventually fizzle out, be patient.
I have a question. Is your WH an integral portion of your business? be very careful with respect to finances and your business.
Overall you seem to really have this together. Keep studing and reading. Knowledge is power.
