Well, he saw her again last summer, and she was out of that relationship and off he went again.
When you say "off he went again", did your husband leave you for this woman? If so what is their plan?
He was in her country on business. I was planning to join him there for a couple of weeks last summer. He began treating me very rudely and I had decided not to go, but didn't know how to reach him. He emailed me a mere 36 hours before I was supposed to leave and told me not to come. He doesn't know that I know about him seeing her again.
Near as I can tell, things went the way they did before. She's not interested in more than 'friends'. He has been gone more than 7 months now, (5 more than initially planned), and will be returning home in 2 weeks. I will be gone. I am moving out. I have not told him yet.
Originally Posted By: Mila
My WH visits the OW. Last time he was with her for two weeks. But I don't see them living together any time soon, he has a business and D16 here and OW has her small children there, living with her husband. So I'm hoping that the logistics of the situation will eventually break it up. At least I'm hoping.
Yeah, sometimes I think that it would be better if they actually lived together, the guilt of breaking up two families, finances, juggling kids...that would give them dose of reality much quicker.
Maybe this is on your thread, but what is her husband inclined to do?
I doubt that guilt plays much of a role in it. They managed to do what they are already doing without guilt, or at least without changing their behavior in response to it. Have you considered trying the gucci method?
