One of the best things that happened is that your support will be coming through collection.
Once my xh started lowering his payments to me on his own, the Court immediately set this program up. It saves you a lot of headaches down the road. It also is nice to have it all set up for when the final decision is made on the amount.
Don't be too quick to believe that they're siding with your H. Lots of times I think they use a lot of reverse psychology just to get people to comfortable with themselves, and then they wait and watch the person slip up when they think they aren't being watched/held accountable anymore.
Regardless, I'm so sorry you're going through this.
Women are angels. And when someone breaks our wings, we simply continue to fly...on a broomstick. We are flexible