What if the OP lives overseas?

[Mila]

I'm wondering my self. My WH is separated by 1000 miles from OW. I'm thinking that it could go either way. If it's a along distance relationship it may keep the "romantic love" going longer, however if there is no possibility of them being together eventually it'll die, it has to...if it has no future of being together.

And if they do manage to be together they will have to live in reality not fantasy and it may die as well. We can't control what they do but we can control what we do. Keep DB and stay optimistic.