Separated, new baby, but still hopeful

[newmama]

ok well to be fair, it may have been more like 9 times with 2-3 texts each!

P how is it cake eating when he asks about S and his cold, plans for visiting and how he is feeling after the procedure?

But the most I have heard from him via text in the past was like 4 or 5 times! So to me, it is above baseline.

And I have been replying when I've had time! Have been a little distracted... so I feel totally in control of myself!

So he comes to visit tomorrow. Like I said before now that he doesn't have cancer I am curious to see if his actions change back to before...he has amped up the acts of service, made big efforts to hold conversation, and it "feels" different somehow. Coincidentally he found the lump 2 weeks ago. So who knows?

I will just try to be objective, report his actions, and think "interesting. but he's still with OW." Then shrug.