Hey OB, I'll give it a shot, but note my WAW translator has been a bit wacky lately...

"There is nothing right about what I've done"
--> I know you don't approve of what I done but I have no regrets.

"You deserve better"
--> I don't want you. Leave me alone so I can continue with my adultery in peace.

"You didn't do anything to deserve this, it's what I felt like I have to do"
--> I don't blame you for me screwing around and I don't regret having committed adultery.

" It's not about him. He could fall of the face of the earth and it wouldn't change this right now"
--> I've done what I've done and have no regrets. I don't care what you think about it. She's right here. It is NOT about him. She let it happen. The blame falls on her.

OB stay strong. I know you're hurting bro and this is a tough time for you. Keep posting here where we can give you support.


M:11 | T:12 | Status: Married
4C's of WAS communication: Cool, Calm, Collected and CONFIDENT