Hey OB, I'll give it a shot, but note my WAW translator has been a bit wacky lately...
"There is nothing right about what I've done" --> I know you don't approve of what I done but I have no regrets.
"You deserve better" --> I don't want you. Leave me alone so I can continue with my adultery in peace.
"You didn't do anything to deserve this, it's what I felt like I have to do" --> I don't blame you for me screwing around and I don't regret having committed adultery.
" It's not about him. He could fall of the face of the earth and it wouldn't change this right now" --> I've done what I've done and have no regrets. I don't care what you think about it. She's right here. It is NOT about him. She let it happen. The blame falls on her.
OB stay strong. I know you're hurting bro and this is a tough time for you. Keep posting here where we can give you support.
M:11 | T:12 | Status: Married 4C's of WAS communication: Cool, Calm, Collected and CONFIDENT