In the other thread you said that you had the need to put her down and lower her self-esteem. Then you added this:
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If you really want her, then you need to do a lot of work to become a man she deserves. A lot of sympathy goes to the LBH, but there was a problem long before she turned to another person. If that problem is not resolved then she will either not stay or she'll continue to find OP who will appreciate her and have the self confidence to show her.
Thank you for writing Sandi
Let me know if what i wrote is a good start, I want to protect his wife, but I want to keep him honest and working hard at the same time...
During these crises you need to cover both ends
Protect your wife from predators Grow up
Work on both ends has to be done.. its a daring rope to dance on to say the least..
