Thanks Grace, how are your girls handling it? Do you, or did you see any rebelion bacause of what's happening in the family? I'm sorry I don't know your current situation, I did read a bit of your history. How is their relationship with WH?
These are the worries I have. My D16 had a great relationship with her dad, she had him on such a pedestal, her daddy could not do wrong. And he was a great man and a great role model; responsible, strong values, integrity...And now she sees this broken man, lying to his family, abandoning us, cheating on her mother, not being there for her... what must she be going through?
D16 won't talk to me much about how she feels, she is very careful not to say anything negative about him in front of me (I don't say anything negative about him to her), but I know that she judges him for what he is doing. She was seeing the school councilor when it all happened, hopefully it helped her a bit.
She is a normal teen, does great in school, so no complains there, however some of her "relationship" behavior concerns me. She had a boyfriend for almost a year, great kid. She broke up with him couple of months after her dad's affair came to light and started dating another boy. Now she is spending lots of time with the old boyfriend while dating the new guy. When I asked her about it she said that she loves her old BF but she likes the new guy and that the new guy doesn't have to know. Interesting isn't it? Something she learned from her dad's behavior? Makes you wonder.
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
