Separated, new baby, but still hopeful

[newmama]

Thanks for thinking positive Mila! But I really think it was b/c OW offered and since he is in a relationship with her, what do you expect.

While I was offering to go, I didn't even think of her (???) but he didn't tell me that she was there. We never speak of her...like that movie The Village. "We don't speak of those who..." I need to look it up!

He said "I'll be okay. It's in office procedure...if it was the hospital that would be different!" But he was going under which requires getting a ride home.