I'm not sure. It's an odd situation. Most people on here make a lot of mistakes at the beginning and it sometimes blows over. Maybe apologize after he meets with them. It may wind up being with a military counselor adn maybe it won't be as terrible as he is anticipating. He might just blast you and blame you now while he's worried about it. Not sure. Maybe someone else with a military background can chime in and help you here.?...