I did not mean to 2X4 so hard, but I've read so much lately about allowing spouses to "get over it" (forgive and forget issues) on their OWN timeline that I've given it a lot of thought. And the level of anger and rage I have read over in the infidelity forum seems to second that about it being on THEIR timeline and expecting the spouse to respect THEIR timeline.It's extremely difficult. Good luck.
