I am so sorry to come here this evening and read your posting. The only good thing is that your payments will be coming to you for another source and not from him directly. I honestly do not know what is going on with the court systems in this country. Laughing is having issues w/her xh and he's been gone for years.
I will keep you and your children in my thoughts and prayers. BTW, how is your father doing?
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.