I'm doing something proactive about my fears around H continuing to be supportive of homeschooling. I'm facilitating a meeting between H and S6's teacher where she will give H some context for him understanding the areas where S6 is not "meeting expectations" (he doesn't have an IEP yet), her ideas of how to work with S6 (not pushing as hard as H has been doing lately), her impression of S6's strengths, and her impression of what has been working in terms of how our family has been working with S6 and his education. A problem that we've had is H totally delegating everything related to education to me, then undermining my approaches or coming in from left field with his own ideas that aren't compatible with the approach that I'm taking (with the support of S6's teacher who has years of experience with homeschooling children). I had a good chat with her and told her that H needs to read a report card about me, as a homeschooling mom. I'm hoping that this will reassure H that we are on the right track with homeschooling and trusting me with managing S6's education.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.