Originally Posted By: broken2010

This is my approach for today. Yell at me some more! I've waffled on this since coming on here, and I feel like I'm getting good advice. If nothing else it feels good to talk to people who are coming from where I'm at. Earlier today I was totally ready to call the other wife, but my wife expressing doubts made me reconsider.


I think you are afraid of your W. But you have to ask yourself this - what's the worst she can do? Have an affair and leave you? Too late.

Earn her respect now or you may never have another chance.

I did not have an A, but I left my H b/c of most of the WAW reasons. You should read his thread ("Coach"). He EARNED my respect, I moved home and am now more in love with that man that I was the day I married him. Tough Love works.

Greek


Me45 H46
T25 M22
S21 & 19
D13
Separated and filed 8/08
Moved home 11/08



Happily ever after is one day at a time.