Please help with advice and support

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What do I do now? Do I sabotage the first real conversation we've had about the relationship without me being clingy/weepy/angry by calling the other slime's wife now? The timing couldn't work out worse. At any rate, his wife's at work and I don't know where that is, so it would have to wait until this weekend anyway when he's out doing his super cool cop stuff.

I'm going to sleep on this one. Any advice is welcome.

Next conversation with W: "Wife, I will not live in an open M. If you do not discontinue all contact with OM and be completely transparent about it (open cell phone records, email, etc), I will contact OMW and let her know what has been going on and that you will not discontinue contact with her H."

This will give her a chance to stop and prove it to you.
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