Maynard, This dealing with an affair is definately a new thing to me too. It is like I am a fish out of water. My H does have serious issues. I do too and I guess I never would have addressed them had this not happened. I hope that your Aunt in law will support you in your fight for your marriage. Aside from abuse, I just don't see why anyone would not support a spouse who is standing for for their marriage?
Chatterbug- thank you for that excerpt. It is exactly how I feel right now.
I am new at this but I will visit sitchs even if only to offer support and encouragement. This is very hard to go through.
Me:34 H:34 D:7 D:6 D:3 T:20years M:10years Bomb: Feburary 2009 Separated: May 2009 EA confirmed March 2010