I would probably offr an invite, but if she declines I would say "OK." Don't flip out, even if she says she wans to work on things.
In my sitch at one point, our C suggested we write out a list of things we could do together as friends...literally months went by and W wouldn't do a single one of them. Rather than taking it in stride- I became upset and accuse her of not caring- in hind site I only reiterated the fact that I care more about me than waw.
So, offer, and if she declines, you're perfectly cool w/ it...especially if she previously committed and changed her mind- possibly to test you.
Like Sandi said- she created alot of sense of worth to you by being unavailable and "too good" for you.
So, work your 180's no pressuring and see what happens.
