Went to family court yesterday over ex not paying his support payments.

He showed up with his bimbo and a new lawyer.

Claiming he is up-to-date on all his payments. BS.

Claiming his salary has been cut in half. BS

So now we have to have a hearing on May 6 about getting my support payments drastically reduced.

He is supposed to be covering my health insurance too but I found out after visting my doctor this week for ear infections, I was no longer covered under our insurance.

Ex claimed we switched back to the other health insurance but we did not get cards yet. He never told me any of this.

The pharmacist where I was getting my antibiotics from called up the insurance company he was claiming we had and they said I am not covered under them.

The only good thing that came out of court yesterday was the judge ordered my support payments come from support collections starting in April.

The rest of it I feel like she is siding with ex's bs.

Probably because he came with a lawyer, I didn't.

So now I will be retaining my lawyer again.

Ex is claiming he is so broke so how come he can afford a lawyer?

I was surprised he brought bimbo along with him. She couldn't even look in my direction. She knows what she has done.

She looked p!ssed too. P!ssed that I had to bring her wonderful boyfriend to court and not let him get away with murder.

But murder seems to be what he gets away with.

When the divorce was final I thought all the bs was done with. I thought I could finally close this chapter in my life and move on.

Now it feels like I am going through this all over again by being back in court hearings.

If ex gets his way, I may not be able to afford my new house anymore. The kids and I will be out on the street while he gets to live in the lap of luxury with the ow.

I will have to drop out of school and get a job to make up for the loss income.

I am having a hard time dealing with the stress. When I get stressed out my whole body hurts from my head to my toes. I have a migraine from all of this and I can't concentrate on my school work.

I feel like I am falling into a depression again.

Is this how my life is going to be from now on? What kind of life is this? I just can't deal with the bs anymore.

I just keep getting the rug pulled out from under me.

Thanks for listening.


Me:35, ex: 36
Sons: 9 & 7
Bomb: July, 2006
Divorced 2009