Huband is having an emotional affair

[ALJ]

Allen- About your confusion about us not having enough money to file, H and I have been unemployed for 10 mos. We both took a buyout from our jobs and he decided that he was going to move down south and expand on his entertainment company. This was after the bomb.There seems to be a market down there for that. He put a lot of money into this venture and I don't think it turned out the way he wanted it to. So he then started a clothing line which involves using more of his buydown money. He also lives out of and pays bills with this money. The clothingline is new and so far has not made any money. I am guessing he hopes it will. Pretty soon this money will run out and he will have to seek a regular nine to five.

About asking him to come home? H has always wanted to move down south to persue his dream of starting the companies that he has. H wanted us to move down south 6 years ago but I did not show any intrest in doing so back then. I was afraid of leaving my extended family who was so dependent on me. I have come to realize that the relationship that I had with them was unhealthy and I was an enabler for their co-dependant behavior on me. Later on down the line, I realized that H wanting us to move away was a way to save me from my to dependant family. When we did not move, and I kept putting everyone else's priorites first before my H and I, my H became