Huband is having an emotional affair

[ALJ]

I'm sorry. I prematurely hit the submit button. I had a little more that I wanted to write.

My H claims that him and OW go out to eat and to the movies together. They have fun together, something I guess we did not do. I don't disagree with this but having a affair is really no excuse for not having fun in our marriage. He claims they have not slept together. Even if they are not being physical, I am sure its just a matter of time.

I would like to save my marriage even though the odds are stacked against me. OW is in the picture and probably has been for sometime, maybe not as serious as it is now but there is nothing I can do to change that. They live 14 hours away in fantasyland. I just don't want to give up so easily just because H has.