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Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love? TomLost Love #1952512 03/05/10 08:09 PM
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C-Bart Member C Joined: Jul 2009 Posts: 882 Missouri	ThisCan'tBeTheEnd, First let me say I feel for you. What a week you must be exhausted. The dog alone would have had me down for a couple of days. One thing I wanted to share with you that I just learned this week. Hopefully it helps you as much as it did me. The anger and resentment you are feeling are the result of your mind trying to cover the pain. Eventually we have to deal with the real pain involved in the lose of our relationships. This is very much like dealing with a death. You need to mourn your loss in order to deal with the next step in the grieving process. Once you deal with the pain the anger will go away and you will be able to love you H again if you choose. We have to accept the reality of our given situations. Our old relationships don't exist any more. That doesn't mean we can't have a better relationship in the future. _________________________ Me-41 W-39 M-15 yrs T-17 yrs D-12 S-9 S-8 B 5/08 S 1/09

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How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/05/10 04:51 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	kat727	03/05/10 06:28 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	TomLost Love	03/05/10 06:48 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/05/10 07:20 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	HeartsBlessing	03/05/10 07:21 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	TomLost Love	03/05/10 07:45 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	C-Bart	03/05/10 08:09 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	courageous wife	03/05/10 08:19 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Golfgirl1	03/05/10 08:28 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	kat727	03/08/10 05:42 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/08/10 09:08 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Cadet	03/08/10 09:15 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	iluvme55	03/08/10 09:19 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Cadet	03/08/10 09:24 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/08/10 09:49 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/08/10 09:50 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	kat727	03/08/10 10:46 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/10/10 01:49 AM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	kat727	03/10/10 01:38 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/10/10 03:26 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	brandnewday	03/10/10 03:32 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/10/10 04:43 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	SoCo	03/10/10 05:13 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Drew	03/10/10 05:22 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/10/10 05:25 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	kat727	03/10/10 05:38 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/10/10 06:07 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/10/10 07:40 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	C-Bart	03/10/10 08:48 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/10/10 08:53 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Drew	03/10/10 09:01 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/10/10 09:08 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	figgeroni	03/10/10 09:14 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Drew	03/10/10 09:18 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/10/10 09:46 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	mindfull	03/10/10 09:51 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Drew	03/10/10 09:59 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Drew	03/10/10 10:02 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/10/10 10:07 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	C-Bart	03/10/10 10:10 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/10/10 10:14 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Drew	03/10/10 10:16 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/10/10 10:24 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Drew	03/10/10 10:29 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Drew	03/10/10 10:13 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/10/10 10:21 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	C-Bart	03/10/10 10:09 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	C-Bart	03/10/10 09:05 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/11/10 11:35 AM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Drew	03/11/10 11:46 AM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/11/10 12:06 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	kat727	03/11/10 02:00 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/11/10 02:18 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	C-Bart	03/11/10 02:34 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/11/10 02:54 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	kat727	03/12/10 12:58 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/12/10 05:42 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/13/10 02:10 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Upside	03/13/10 03:04 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/13/10 03:57 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Upside	03/13/10 04:19 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/15/10 10:45 AM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	kat727	03/15/10 02:57 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/15/10 03:16 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/15/10 03:49 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Cadet	03/15/10 03:55 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/15/10 03:59 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Drew	03/15/10 04:11 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/15/10 04:20 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Drew	03/15/10 04:23 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/15/10 05:08 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	kat727	03/15/10 05:31 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/15/10 06:18 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Drew	03/15/10 07:19 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/15/10 07:25 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Drew	03/15/10 07:37 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/15/10 09:34 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	kat727	03/15/10 09:42 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/15/10 11:19 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Drew	03/16/10 10:42 AM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/16/10 02:15 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Drew	03/16/10 02:30 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/16/10 02:45 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/16/10 04:38 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	kat727	03/16/10 05:12 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/18/10 02:41 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/21/10 01:34 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	job	03/21/10 01:40 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/21/10 01:55 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	job	03/21/10 02:06 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/21/10 02:06 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	TrentC	03/21/10 04:55 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	are you kidding	03/21/10 04:58 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	are you kidding	03/21/10 05:02 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/21/10 05:34 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	are you kidding	03/21/10 05:48 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	are you kidding	03/21/10 05:52 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	are you kidding	03/21/10 05:56 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/21/10 05:56 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	are you kidding	03/21/10 06:02 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	are you kidding	03/21/10 06:08 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/21/10 06:37 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	kat727	03/21/10 10:21 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Mila	03/21/10 10:40 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	TrentC	03/22/10 05:17 AM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/22/10 10:46 AM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Drew	03/22/10 10:59 AM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/22/10 11:07 AM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/22/10 11:09 AM
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Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/22/10 01:20 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/22/10 05:37 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Cadet	03/22/10 05:55 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Drew	03/22/10 05:57 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/22/10 06:41 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Mach1	03/22/10 06:53 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Drew	03/22/10 07:25 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/22/10 07:52 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Drew	03/22/10 07:59 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/22/10 08:03 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Drew	03/22/10 08:05 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Mach1	03/22/10 08:09 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/22/10 08:39 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	kat727	03/22/10 08:45 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Mach1	03/22/10 08:49 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/22/10 09:09 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Upside	03/22/10 11:02 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	kat727	03/23/10 02:15 AM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/26/10 01:45 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	mindfull	03/26/10 01:47 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/26/10 02:25 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/26/10 03:41 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Mach1	03/26/10 03:47 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/26/10 05:26 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Cadet	04/01/10 07:39 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	C-Bart	04/01/10 08:17 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Virtually_Handsome	04/01/10 11:55 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Mach1	04/02/10 01:28 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	04/02/10 02:15 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	04/02/10 02:28 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Mach1	04/02/10 03:07 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Upside	04/02/10 03:51 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	04/02/10 04:41 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Mach1	04/02/10 04:54 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	04/02/10 04:59 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Mach1	04/02/10 05:06 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Jack_Three_Beans	04/02/10 10:40 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	04/03/10 12:36 AM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	04/03/10 01:51 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	cat04	04/03/10 02:34 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	04/04/10 03:05 PM
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Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Mila	04/04/10 04:07 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	kat727	04/04/10 08:00 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	04/05/10 02:57 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Mila	04/05/10 04:22 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	04/05/10 10:24 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	04/05/10 10:57 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Jack_Three_Beans	04/05/10 11:04 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	04/05/10 11:41 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	04/05/10 11:43 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	kat727	04/06/10 07:56 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Jack_Three_Beans	04/07/10 09:16 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	04/08/10 09:35 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	04/09/10 02:48 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	04/11/10 02:15 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	C-Bart	04/12/10 04:01 AM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	04/12/10 02:07 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	SoCo	04/12/10 03:18 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	04/13/10 04:05 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	SoCo	04/13/10 04:39 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	kat727	04/20/10 01:53 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	courageous wife	04/05/10 11:06 PM
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Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	pandora	04/25/10 03:43 PM
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Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Mach1	03/22/10 08:57 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Drew	03/22/10 09:02 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Cadet	03/15/10 04:12 PM
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