Well, stbxw has replied that we can change our health insurance.
But, got into a email back and forth about taxes, which will be benefited by the investment properties she now disavows any interest in, and there is no surprise, that if there's money coming back, she wants that..
I probably slipped a bit from there, and said she knows she was involved from the start, and that I would not have agreed without her consent on them, to which her reply was that because I was a controlling person and she had little say in anything.
This to me is just rewriting. I asked her opinions, thoughts, feelings on stuff like this, and trusted that when she agreed it was the truth from her.
I just ended it there, and said I can see how you feel that way, and I could see how she would.
I know I tagged on something I shouldn't have, that she has her new life and boyfriend now, so she can do as she pleases. Why, I don't know. Probably because it hurts so much. Why does it have to be so tough that when you hurt, you have to lash back at times.
Stupid. I wonder if I will ever learn...
M: 41 STBXW: 41 D: 9 Bomb: 4/26/09
On board the D train now..
"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."