I am sorry that you are here on these boards. You are in for an rollercoaster UNLESS you take refuse the ride...and that is what you should do, REFUSE to ride this rollercoaster with your wife and her irrational and rude behavior. Your wife is acting completely disrespectful to you! As a women I HATE when a man lets me walk all over them. If I tell that man that the sky is green even though he sees that it is blue and he just says ok, that is a complete turn off and most women will run over him and use him for what they need him for. Don't be that man to your wife.
When you find her in a lie...don't ask her about it to see what excuse she will have to make yourself feel better...call a lie a lie and then WALK AWAY...no argument with her when you know what is going on.
You need to SHOW your wife that you are a MAN that will not ALLOW her to disrespect you and your home.
gotta run but will be back
Me: 28 H: 32 1st marriage 4 both 1 1/2 year married 2gether for 9 1S: 6months 1stepson: 2yo