Just want my H back

[talia]

HI HHH,
MY first advice - DON'T sign anything until you run it by L - D is a legally biding contract and needing to talk to L will give you the space you need - and an easy excuse not to sign tomorrow. All WINS -

I totally agree with the beliefs thing - I don't believe in D either and THAT topic - my being forced into something I don't believe in - has been the main subject of my IC.

Cbug pointed out on someone's thread - TTA's I think - something that I think applies to you. H is pushing things only at times where you are visibly doing things that are strictly for YOU. Its a controlling passive aggressive thing.... I will find his quote.... I think you might be able to chalk it up to that. The move is something HE can't control - and he's had most of the control in this entire situation so far - so pushing the D on you RIGHT before you leave is his way of taking back control? Just my thoughts on that - not that we know what he's thinking

Take his info tomorrow and then wait until you get to SF and talk to the people who can help you make sure its FAIR and the RIGHT settlement for you - and only sign when you are ready!!

BIG BIG HUGS!!!

T