I believe in it is real...but I didn't always believe that way...I used to think MLC was a dumb excuse for a guy to get a gf, a convertable sports car and act like an immature teenager!
Well when I saw my sane as sane can be husband "snap"...wow, what an eye opener...his was a total breakdown...emotional, financial, physical...I am now a true believe in MLC...after seeing with my own two eyes how a decent, loving, caring, rock of a father and husband just crumbled before my eyes after the "bomb" (he lost his job after 9-11) and the rest is history!