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Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love? kat727 #1952436 03/05/10 06:48 PM
Joined: Dec 2009 Posts: 113 Long Island, NY T TomLost Love Member
TomLost Love Member T Joined: Dec 2009 Posts: 113 Long Island, NY	I see many statements in your post that could have come from me as well, and I am only starting along the path that you have walked. I don't know what encouragement I can offer - other than to say you are not alone in how you feel. You say you still love your spouse and would gladly drop everything to go to them - ditto. You say you have lots of anger - ditto. Thirty years of relationship - ditto. Finding detachment so incredibly hard - ditto. I ask myself the same questions, wonder how this can be, wonder how to get thru this. You are definitely not alone out there. For me - I am taking one day or one hour if need be at a time. It sounds like you've made progress - so really - look at the small steps you've taken already - and pat yourself on the back that you've moved forward. I struggle daily too - but I can honestly say when I concentrate on myself instead of thinking of spouse - I definitely do better. Me: 48 W: 47 M: 25 years T: 30 years S24, D21, D11 Bomb dropped: "Not in love with you" 10/09 Separated Feb 2010

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How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/05/10 04:51 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	kat727	03/05/10 06:28 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	TomLost Love	03/05/10 06:48 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/05/10 07:20 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	HeartsBlessing	03/05/10 07:21 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	TomLost Love	03/05/10 07:45 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	C-Bart	03/05/10 08:09 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	courageous wife	03/05/10 08:19 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Golfgirl1	03/05/10 08:28 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	kat727	03/08/10 05:42 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/08/10 09:08 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Cadet	03/08/10 09:15 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	iluvme55	03/08/10 09:19 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Cadet	03/08/10 09:24 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/08/10 09:49 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/08/10 09:50 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	kat727	03/08/10 10:46 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/10/10 01:49 AM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	kat727	03/10/10 01:38 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/10/10 03:26 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	brandnewday	03/10/10 03:32 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/10/10 04:43 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	SoCo	03/10/10 05:13 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Drew	03/10/10 05:22 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/10/10 05:25 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	kat727	03/10/10 05:38 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/10/10 06:07 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/10/10 07:40 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	C-Bart	03/10/10 08:48 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/10/10 08:53 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Drew	03/10/10 09:01 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/10/10 09:08 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	figgeroni	03/10/10 09:14 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Drew	03/10/10 09:18 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/10/10 09:46 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	mindfull	03/10/10 09:51 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Drew	03/10/10 09:59 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Drew	03/10/10 10:02 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/10/10 10:07 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	C-Bart	03/10/10 10:10 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/10/10 10:14 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Drew	03/10/10 10:16 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/10/10 10:24 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Drew	03/10/10 10:29 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Drew	03/10/10 10:13 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/10/10 10:21 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	C-Bart	03/10/10 10:09 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	C-Bart	03/10/10 09:05 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/11/10 11:35 AM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Drew	03/11/10 11:46 AM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/11/10 12:06 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	kat727	03/11/10 02:00 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/11/10 02:18 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	C-Bart	03/11/10 02:34 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/11/10 02:54 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	kat727	03/12/10 12:58 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/12/10 05:42 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/13/10 02:10 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Upside	03/13/10 03:04 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/13/10 03:57 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Upside	03/13/10 04:19 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/15/10 10:45 AM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	kat727	03/15/10 02:57 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/15/10 03:16 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/15/10 03:49 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Cadet	03/15/10 03:55 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/15/10 03:59 PM
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Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/15/10 04:20 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Drew	03/15/10 04:23 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/15/10 05:08 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	kat727	03/15/10 05:31 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/15/10 06:18 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Drew	03/15/10 07:19 PM
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Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/15/10 09:34 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	kat727	03/15/10 09:42 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/15/10 11:19 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Drew	03/16/10 10:42 AM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/16/10 02:15 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Drew	03/16/10 02:30 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/16/10 02:45 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/16/10 04:38 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	kat727	03/16/10 05:12 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/18/10 02:41 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/21/10 01:34 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	job	03/21/10 01:40 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/21/10 01:55 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	job	03/21/10 02:06 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/21/10 02:06 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	TrentC	03/21/10 04:55 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	are you kidding	03/21/10 04:58 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	are you kidding	03/21/10 05:02 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/21/10 05:34 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	are you kidding	03/21/10 05:48 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	are you kidding	03/21/10 05:52 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	are you kidding	03/21/10 05:56 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/21/10 05:56 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	are you kidding	03/21/10 06:02 PM
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Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/21/10 06:37 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	kat727	03/21/10 10:21 PM
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Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/22/10 10:46 AM
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Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Mach1	03/22/10 08:09 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/22/10 08:39 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	kat727	03/22/10 08:45 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Mach1	03/22/10 08:49 PM
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Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Upside	03/22/10 11:02 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	kat727	03/23/10 02:15 AM
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Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/26/10 02:25 PM
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Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Mach1	03/26/10 03:47 PM
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Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Cadet	04/01/10 07:39 PM
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