I think the 'scapegoat' in my sitch is my children. Much younger new wife appears (from what the kids tell me) to be very matriachal and dominant. Given that his own mum virtually lives with them (as she did with us) that must be so hard on him (ha ha) but not so good for my kids.


Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15