[quote] she told me that the more emotional I got, the more I was "pushing" her toward the other man.
"...maybe some truth to that; but it's WAS spew..."
That's one of the few things you can believe from her. It's 150% true.
She was honest, she knows what attracts her. When a man begs & pleads for his WAW to not leave him, it totally kills the attraction and make no mistake about it, you are dealing with attraction here: what causes it and what kills it. Mike you have been killing it, this is not WAS spew.
And yes she was accurate that you were pushing her to the OM when you acted like that.
Let's think about it.
You begging and pleading translates to needy, insecure, emotional, wussy like, weak, not confident, not strong - all HUGE attraction killers for women.
If a woman can't trust the man she's with to be strong, confident, secure, stable, calm - sooner or later she will be attracted to another man that displays those traits & characteristics.
LOVE is not forever.
If it was, this site wouldn't exist, there would be no need to bust divorces. Love conquers all, etc.
And you can't expect people to love you and accept you as you are if you turn into something unattractive. That's not fair to them.
It's the psychology of human nature, you either embrace it and the reality of your situation and start doing things that work to turn this situation around or you continue wandering the forums asking "WHY ME?" and "WHAT DO I DO NOW?"
