hate to repeat myself but the victory here, is not in how your w feels or what she does/thinks or says...it is ALL about how your life is, going forward. Lucky for you, that is within YOUR control....so lose the marital history book and the scorecard about who was "righter" and leave the results of your w 's choices to the universe....don't wait any longer for her to "get it"....
You will know you are healthy and that you "get it" when you no longer care if she does... j-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016