take the good for what it is... GOOD, otherwise you will continue to keep yourself in negativity. besides, imho, it doesn't matter if it happened because of something else. they still chose to do a better thing so we encourage the better behavior. As we encourage the good choices, and make healthy boundaries and healthy consequences for the bad ones, the more good choices they will eventually chose to do.

preach it ST...

oh and like my son says "bee tee dubs" (btw) I'll be alone in hotel smile


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3 older teens
Bomb Nov 09 "i'm not happy"
EA Nov 09 w/coworker
Another PA in Mar 10
I Filed Apr 10
D final Dec 10