she is so entrenched and won't listen. Is it time for the I will not put up with this any longer talk?
she wont listen! In the coming weeks your actions towards become a more confidant, secure and independent man will show her the consequences of her actions greater then any 'talk' will have.
btw, you do realize that a divorced man does not hang out REPEATEDLY with a married woman unless there is something going on. he is not a priest.