I pulled the list out that that Sandi gave me. I reference it often, and am trying to figure out where I am in the scheme of things. Do I continue with what seemed to be working for a couple of weeks or do something else? I have not brought up any R talk, I don't pursue, don't follow her around, I listen much better than I have in a long, long time. Is this all to be expected? Sorry to keep beating a dead horse, I just really feel lost right now.