Robx, before you tell me to move on, realize I buy into the number of messages you sent to my posts yesterday and understand whichever side I stick to is fine - but either way, I need to move on.
LOL! So you think you know what I'm going to say but choose to stay on your current course doing what you're doing because it's worked so well.
There must have been an update to your situation recently, I didn't realize that your wife considered the OM her boyfriend already, that was quick.