Originally Posted By: chatterbug
Next time you get this....

Do this...

IGNORE

THEN WHEN HE DOES THIS AGAIN.

IGNORE

ON the 3rd time reply

" I will not longer have relationship conversations with you when there is a third party involved in our Marriage. I will not be a part of an Open Marriage. "

THEN IGNORE THE NEXT 10 MESSAGES or 2 days.


Chatterbug, that's good excpet for the

Open Marriage

Part. In my opinion you NEVER call an affair an relationship, dating, or an open marriage or a friendship or ANYTHING other than an AFFAIR...

ALWAYS call a spade a spade

4luv's husband tried this stunt on her recently he had asked "so are we dating other people now or what?" and he basically is asking for her to sign off on him having an AFFAIR

NEVER NEVER NEVER refer to an AFFAIR as ANYTHHING else... it just LEGITIMIZES painful activity that is done to you...

WOuld you refer to stalking as "watching?" No, if someone is following you and you don't WANT them to and they have no REASON to its STALKING

Call a spade a SPADE...

SOrry Chatterbug, the points you made where good other than that small part. smile

So, this is what we have :

" I will no longer have marriage conversations with you when there is a third party involved in our Marriage. While we are married, any involvement with her is an AFFAIR and a threat to our marriage. You are my husband and should be protecting our marriage. - CLICK"



Last edited by Allen A; 03/05/10 06:00 PM.