personally, i would find a last minute babysitter and show up at the bar. irish car bomb anyone?
I have thought of that, believe me.
I did call a friend last night and he went to the bar and said it was her and about four other people, super included, but not just the two of them. Still, not what I want in our marriage. I never minded her going out ocasionally with her friends, I do the same. I have let it go on for soooo long now (over a year) that she is so entrenched and won't listen. Is it time for the I will not put up with this any longer talk? Still very scary at this point. I know, not very manly. I guess I just need talked into what I know I need to do.
