Sorry, we're closed. Under new management.

[ClingingToHope]

Don't hold your breath waiting for anything from them. Make your life all about you and let it all go.

BUT even If they DO "see the light" at some point, know that chances are, you'll never hear about it. Their ego won't allow them to fully "get it" let alone tell YOU about it. You'd be the last one to hear in all likelihood.

Don't I know it. My W never admits when she's wrong. We've left churches. Stopped hanging out with friends. Switched the kids in schools after W either had an argument with someone or got embarrassed by something.

So yes, logically, I know now that the decision has been made it's going to happen unless something really shakes her up.

My heart though wants someday that closure where she says she realizes it wasn't me who was the source of her unhappiness.

My L and my counselor told me that's unlikely to ever happen and I'll have to give it up. With everything else, I hope it happens in time.