I would be wary of the R talk, pressuring and pursuit.
Also- some say whenever there is ILYBINILWY- there may be OM.
So keep that in your mind as well- it is not always the case, but often times this is script when there may be someone else.
If all the issues of the M are out on the table, why not work on the M?
You have already asked her so I wouldn't bother asking again. If you ask about OM, which I don't know if you should yet...if she says no, that doesn't mean anything.
I would let her initiate PT or hugs, I would not pursue her or follow her around.
