officerInNeed, I'm sorry that you find yourself here, I know it sucks. I too am dealing with an A - and my H keeps telling me they are just friends, which I know is BS.
Puppy & Allen are great at giving the best advice ever. I know how hard it is to follow, and goes against what you feel like doing. But I do believe it works. I have tried to go dark, and have failed at it many times. However, when I do it, my H starts pursing me. And the hardest ever I think, is GAL. But that is something you have to do, like the say on here fake it till you make it.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10
