Don't try to make sense of it, it will drive you crazy.
It sux to be here, but you are in a good place. There are a lot of good people here to help you through this difficult time. You've already gotten some great advice. Detach from his rollercoaster, take care of yourself and focus on your kids. You will come out of this a better person if you use this time wisely. Patience.
Me: 43 W: 40 S10,S7 M12, T13+
My sitch: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1952314&page=1
