nightshade,
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Sometimes I even wonder if all this trying to keep the M alive isn't enabling him to think.. oh well, she wants this marriage, so I can do it again, she'll do her best to keep the M again. I don't want him to get the idea that it's ok to do it, and then apologize and then go and do it again. I know he probably doesn't, we've talked about it in detail, but it's the feeling I have sometimes.





And any of us here that had a H thatcheated knows how you feel! You can add me to the list. AND THAT is my greatest fear, will he think it's OK to do it again!

Aren't they lucky to have a wife that will forgive!

Deb


bom:01/2003
D: 03/14/2006