sometime you must check out lissett's thread from long ago--(and see how happy her life is now too)and see her hilarious parade route jokes...and you need a nickname for your X h...her ex was "Puff Daddy" and "puff" for short...others had "POS" for their ex'es and you know what that stands for...not as funny, but to the point. I say go for humor when you can, always. It diffuses, and makes YOUR life better. That's all that matters now.
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M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change