if you count the emotional affair my husband had in 96 then i am dealing with two myself
i didn't really know about ea's (knowing that they are just as damaging as pa's) until this year. so i didn't count that as an affair until recently
my limit was "i would NEVER put up with someone who wasn't loyal to me"
well, i have had to eat those words. i cannot believe to this day that i didn't leave my husband the day he dropped the bomb cause i believed i always would