Sounds as if you are doing a good job educating yourself. Have you read "not Just Friends" by Shirley Glass? Good one for both of you! Another good one is "Hold Me Tight" by Sue Johnson--I'll bet you will see your marriage prior to A in there and it will give you both hope. If you can, get a copy for each of you.
Does she say A is over? Is she willing to end it?
If so, a letter asking OM to leave her alone (and have NC) so she can repair her marriage that you mail, is necessary.
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