Originally Posted By: CityGirl
The thing I learned about detachment is there are many forward steps then for one reason or another you take a few steps back. It's part of the process and as best as I can tell the timeline for everybody is different.


So true.

Detachment doesn't mean that you won't be emotional. You can be detached and still feel sad, angry, and numb. To me detachment means that you have reached a point where regardless of the outcome of your sitch, YOU know that YOU will be okay. A survivor.


Last edited by motherof3; 03/05/10 03:53 PM.

Me & H: 33 yrs
S: 4 & 6
D: 2
M: 9 yrs
ILYBNILWY: 8/09
SEPARATED: 9/09
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