!Help! Need Advice and encouragement!

[stark648]

I had already changed the locks--

I purchased the house before we were legally married and it is in my name only.

I really have the two questions though---should I go ahead and let her come to the skate party? I feel like a heel. I don't care that I paid for it, I always paid for most everything anyway.

WHAT I'm REALLY wondering about is ::
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She said, "You didn't fight very hard."

I said, "What, for the bike?"
(I knew what she meant: the marriage)

So I quickly said, "Oh, I've just been thinking about some things lately--just thinking about some stuff"
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WAS THAT A GOOD RESPONSE OR NOT?

How can I show her I still love her and yet be independent and GAL and that possibly she could come back---without my seeming like I'm sitting around waiting??