Around midnite, I got a text from him and it said this;
"I just wanted to let you know that I'm sorry for everything. I never wanted to hurt you or try to hurt you. I never thought my life would turn out this way but it is something, regardless of my reasons, that I have to live with. Is it easy? No. And it does hurt not being able to see the kids grow on a daily basis because I have been just somewhat there and I know that I owe them an apology. I know its hard on all of you because although I may not show it, it is hard on me also. Its like everything is a mess and it feels like I'm the blame for it, even though I have said that we both are. Maybe in life, I haven't made all the right choices but whatever the choices made, I am going to have to live with the consequences. If it is right or wrong, I believe God will one day show me the right way. Hopefully not when its too late. Sorry for bothering you."
Next time you get this....
Do this...
IGNORE
THEN WHEN HE DOES THIS AGAIN.
IGNORE
ON the 3rd time reply
" I will not longer have relationship conversations with you when there is a third party involved in our Marriage. I will not be a part of an Open Marriage. "
THEN IGNORE THE NEXT 10 MESSAGES or 2 days.
Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul. unconditional love is awesome!
