good point, CG. i'm working on getting to the healthiest mental/emotional/physical/spiritual place i can get to...i wouldn't say my H has "checked out" entirely at this point. he was much more checked out about a month ago, when he moved out. i think after seeing how well i was doing, he started following my lead, but is still only in the very VERY early stages of working on his own mental/emotional health.
like newmama said earlier, the ADHD isn't just going to go away and he'll become a new person. but hopefully with time and professional help, my H can learn to manage his ADHD. certainly i don't believe he should be left/ignored because he's not "healthy," but i also can't take any of the steps towards getting healthy FOR him. that has to come from HIM.
Me30 H29 M2.5 T5 H moved out 1/23/2010 H wants signed agreement 3/30/2010 ...feeling hopeless
