Oh, and Whatnow, I'm not dating her. I'm going with different friends to both events. In any event both are fun events that I don't want to miss! I plan on us all hanging out as a group, but to not spend too much 1-on-1 with her. I figure the more people around, the more comfortable she'll be with me there. And the more comfortable she is around me, the easier it will be for us to eventually have the 1-on-1. I plan to let her approach me and see what happens, but I definitely plan on staying sober and not getting clingy or emotional. I've already asked friends both nights to keep me from doing anything I'll regret.
