Query- when you leave something bad for the sake of following God a substitute is promised later on.
I am slow this morning....wouldn't this be a bad thing theoretically in a Christian marriage? Or am I simply reading it the only way my brain is letting me read that?
The dress story is very funny. My W was the same for years I would offer to buy her nice things and she was always reluctant to do so. Money was not the issue, luckily we don't have money issues.
The other thing is that we don't argue at all, it is totally odd but because of my changes over 1.7 years we don't fight.
We cook, clean, play with the kids together, workout together, watch TV at night, drink wine together, etc, etc. She simply doesn't love me. We are basically roommates at this time. We are not together constantly doing this, of course, but you get my drift.
So the drive there will not be a big deal at all.
Last edited by TBL; 03/05/1002:46 PM.
TBL now equals "Toward Better Love" M-44 W-42; 2 kids; married 11 years 1st bomb 10-08, reconcile 12-08 2nd bomb 8-09, moving toward reconcile 3-7-10
