Yes yes yes you can keep the house but you may have to buy him out of the house. That is--for example:

House Appraised = 250k
Loan Amount = 190k
Equity = 60k

You pay hubby 30k (his half of what the two of you own in the house) and do a refinance of 220k for instance.

I kept the house--now mine. We got 3 appraisals and averaged them. The market is DOWN right now so I bough tthe house for 257k UNDER its appraised value 3 years ago. She was PO'd--my response--"you picked a crappy time to have an affair!"

Good luck!


I'm not sure i want to be married to you anymore - 8-30-09
ILYBINILWY = 9-4-09
Busted her on a date 9-19-09
Separation - 9-21-09
Divorce - 10-9-09
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