You pay hubby 30k (his half of what the two of you own in the house) and do a refinance of 220k for instance.
I kept the house--now mine. We got 3 appraisals and averaged them. The market is DOWN right now so I bough tthe house for 257k UNDER its appraised value 3 years ago. She was PO'd--my response--"you picked a crappy time to have an affair!"
Good luck!
I'm not sure i want to be married to you anymore - 8-30-09 ILYBINILWY = 9-4-09 Busted her on a date 9-19-09 Separation - 9-21-09 Divorce - 10-9-09 S15 S13 S10 M - 18 Years